Now the fun (work?) begins. Where to have the wedding? Indoors or out? When? What is the best month for you, your guests and even your budget? (It’s true, the time of year you choose to have a wedding can have a tremendous impact on the cost). What time of day? Will you do a plated meal or buffet at the reception or will hors d’oeuvres do? How many guests should you have? (Do you really have to invite your fiancee’s cousins?) Band or D.J.? Rehearsal dinner? Out of town guest accommodations and transportation? Who will do the flowers? The cake? The invitations? And how much will it all cost?